Comfort levels

For various reasons I have been craving comfort food in recent days. I have also come to realize that there are different types of comfort food depending on the situation that necessitates the comforting. If I am sick, I seek foods that I associate with being nursed back to health: brothy soups, bland dishes from my childhood, and simple things like cinnamon toast or even breakfast cereal. This is the easiest level of comfort to obtain because it requires little in the way of preparation or cooking.

Moving up a little on the comfort scale are items that bring back positive memories, to be used when I need to soothe my emotions or lift my spirits from a loss, such as when I must say goodbye to a cherished furry family member. These dishes can require a moderate amount of prep that may even verge on being ceremonial. The items are ones I am familiar with making but which are not as bland or boring as the first tier of comfort foods. This level includes items I have favorited in the EYB Library such as Perfectly pillowy cinnamon rolls or Croque monsieur mac and cheese.

The next level of comfort foods are those that help quell anxiety by keeping my hands and mind occupied. These are the most challenging recipes, often needing a high level of finesse and attention to detail that serve as a distraction from feelings of worry and as a way to achieve a sense of control. Things may be careening wildly toward disaster in one aspect of life, but in the kitchen all is in order and as it should be. Some people might choose a simple task for this, but for me a trial of my skills works better. Often this involves a baking project, preferably with multiple components or techniques such as Croissants, Pear and fig charlotte, or Chicken shawarma pie. Recent events led to a marathon baking and decorating session that included developing a new cake recipe and piping elaborate designs, plus a side quest into croissants, if that gives you any idea of the stressors I was battling. What types of comfort foods do you seek for various scenarios?

Edit: here are the photos of cake decorating I did. I don’t have a recipe for the cake, but basically I took a regular egg-white only butter cake and substituted 25g freeze dried strawberry powder for 25g of the flour and added a bit of extra liquid.

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  • LeilaD  on  March 13, 2025

    Buttered noodles and beef is my go-to for comfort- nothing makes me feel better that that, except possibly Nestle Tollhouse cookies. I have been known to rage-bake bread, since I can give it a pounding while I’m kneading. My birthday breakfast, due to tradition, is hot cocoa and peanut butter toast.

    Save the cooking from scratch and hard projects for after work and the weekend. That’s when I worry about being healthy.

  • rmpostonmfandt  on  March 13, 2025

    Can we see a picture of that cake and possibly sharing the recipe? Intrigued by the “piping elaborate designs”!

    • Darcie  on  March 18, 2025

      I have added the photo of the cake decorating.

  • sanfrannative  on  March 14, 2025

    I love soup for any level of emotional turmoil! But baking something elaborate also lifts my mood. I was going to bake a peppermint chiffon pie for Pi Day at my work and I didn’t feel like it but I did it anyway and seeing the baking magic happen just made me feel GREAT!!!

  • rmpostonmfandt  on  March 19, 2025

    I love the photos! That cake is incredible and good idea on the freeze dried strawberries. I’ll have to try that myself!

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